Thursday, December 16, 2010

One Secret of a happy marriage

A man and his fiance were married.It was  a large celebration.All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations.A wonderful time was had by all.The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo.Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal:"I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage."She offered."Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person.Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed.So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other.They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.

"I'll start,"offered the wife.She took out her list.It had many items on it.Enough to fill 3 pages, in fact.As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

"What's wrong?"she asked."Nothing" the husband replied,"keep reading your list."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband.She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists."She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list.I think that you are perfect the way that you are.I don't want you to change anything for me.You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, the touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

This is not to say that you must overlook every fault in your partner.When it comes to the little things, remember that we are all imperfect beings,  struggling to worship our Creator as best we can, pursue our dreams, raise our families, put food on the table, and balance all of the above fairly.We all have faults.We all make mistakes.Or in another words(jangan cari kesempurnaan , maka sempurnalah hidupmu)

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Muhasabah buat semua

"Walau jauh kita pergi, ingatlah kita pernah di tarbiah dan TARBIAH tidak akan berhenti dan berakhir . Walau sesibuk manapun kita, jangan kita lupa tanggungjawab MUSLIM yang pasti akan ditanya kelak.Walau sebebas manapun kita, jangan kita lupa kita adalah MAKHLUK yang pastinya adalah milik Allah".-peringatan juga buat diriku.


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